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Writer's pictureLise Robinson

Coping with Grief During Christmas


Christmas is often seen as a season of joy, togetherness, and celebration. However, for many, it can be a time of profound sadness and longing, especially when faced with the loss of a loved one. The festive lights, cheerful songs, and traditions can be bittersweet reminders of those we miss deeply. Grief is a natural response to loss, and it’s okay to feel the full spectrum of emotions during this season.

Allow Yourself to Feel

Grief doesn’t follow a schedule, and the holidays often amplify it. You may experience sadness, anger, longing, or even guilt for moments of joy. These feelings are valid. Allow yourself to feel whatever arises without judgment. Suppressing emotions only prolongs the pain. Instead, let the tears flow, embrace the memories, and allow the love you shared to guide your healing journey.

Honoring the Ones We’ve Lost

Remembering your loved one can be a beautiful way to keep their spirit alive during the holidays. You might light a candle in their memory, hang an ornament that symbolizes them, or write them a heartfelt letter expressing your thoughts and feelings. Share their name, tell their stories, and celebrate their legacy. Acts like these remind us of the eternal energy of love that never fades, even in their physical absence.

Build Community Around Grief

Grieving can feel isolating, especially during a season that emphasizes togetherness. But you don’t have to navigate this journey alone. Building a community around grief can provide comfort and understanding. Sharing your experiences with others who understand your pain creates a supportive space where healing can begin. Together, we can hold space for one another, honoring our loved ones while creating new connections rooted in compassion and resilience.

Embrace Resilience and Love

The human spirit is incredibly resilient. Though grief may feel overwhelming, we are capable of holding both love and pain simultaneously. Life continues, and while it may never be the same, it can still hold moments of beauty and joy. The love we shared with those we’ve lost transcends time and space—it lives on in our hearts, memories, and actions.

Create New Traditions

If old traditions feel too painful, consider starting new ones that honor where you are now. Volunteer for a cause your loved one cared about, gather with friends to share stories, or spend time in nature reflecting on their life. New traditions can bring purpose and healing, allowing you to cherish the past while embracing the present.


Join Us This Saturday

This holiday season, let’s come together to honor our loved ones and care for ourselves. Join me on Saturday for a Mini Grief Workshop, where we’ll focus on building community and finding practical tools to nurture our minds, bodies, and hearts during this challenging time.

What to Expect:

  • Self-Care Tools: Learn practical ways to prioritize your well-being.

  • Supportive Space: Connect with others who understand the complexities of grief.

🎟 Register here: https://bit.ly/3ZucPGM

Together, we’ll begin the process of healing, building resilience, and finding hope.

The Energy of Love Never Dies

One comforting truth to carry with you is that love is eternal. The physical presence of our loved ones may be gone, but their love continues to ripple through our lives. Every act of kindness, cherished memory, and lesson they taught us is a testament to their enduring spirit.

This holiday season, let’s honor our grief, our loved ones, and ourselves. Let’s remember that we are not alone and that together, we can find light in the darkness.

💛 You matter. Your grief matters. And your healing matters.

May this Christmas be a time of reflection, renewal, and love as we build a community of support and healing.

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